Fun is, in fact, a word heard far more frequently in families today than in the past, when "duty’’ and "responsibility" were often the words used.
Parents today are more youthful in appearance and attitudes. Their clothes and hair-styles are more casual, helping to bridge the divide. Those who are athletically inclined also enjoy Rollerblading, snowboarding, and rock-climbing with their children.
For the past three years, Kathy and Phil Dalby have spent at least one evening a week at a climbing gym with their three children. "It’s great to be able to work together," Mrs Dalby says. "We discuss various climbs and where the hard parts are. Sometimes that leads to other Conversations. We’re definitely closer."
A popular movement of parent effectiveness training in the 1970s has helped to reshape generational roles. The philosophy encourages children to describe their feelings about various situations. As a result, says Robert Billingham, a family-studies professor at Indiana University, "Parents and children began talking to each other in ways they had not before."
On the plus side, he adds, these conversations made parents realize that children may have important thoughts or feelings that adults need to be aware of.
But Professor Billingham also sees a downside: Many parents started making decisions based on what their child wanted. "The power shifted to children. Parents said, ’I have to focus on making my child happy’, as opposed to ’I have to act as a parent most appropriately’."
Other changes are occurring as the ranks of working mothers grow. Time-short parents encourage children’s independence, making them more responsible for themselves. "They’ll say, ’We trust you to make the right decisions’ (whether they’re ready to assume the responsibility or not) ,"says Billingham.
The self-esteem movement of the past quarter-century has also affected the family dynamics (原动力). Some parents worry that if they tell their child no, it will hurt the child’s self-esteem.What’s the trend in parent-child relationship mentioned in the passage?
| A．Parents are chasing after fashion and ignoring the feelings of their children. |
| B．More parents and children are sharing the same enthusiasm for a certain sport. |
| C．Parents are taking more responsibility and setting more limits for their children. |
| D．The generation gap is narrowing and parents are respecting their children’s thoughts more. |
Which of the following has NOT contributed to the change in the parent-child relationship?
| A．Younger parents. | B．Parent effectiveness training. |
| C．More working mothers. | D．The self-esteem movement. |
What’s Billingham’s attitude towards parents who make children more responsible for themselves?
| A．He supports them. | B．He admires them. |
| C．He disagrees with them. | D．He thinks they’re unreasonable. |
What will probably be discussed following the last paragraph?
| A．The effect of more working mothers on children’ s education. |
| B．The benefits of the new relationship between parents and children. |
| C．The importance of self-esteem and ways to develop children’s self-esteem. |
| D．The risks of setting no rules and some suggestions on how to have a balanced attitude. |
What’s the best title for the text?
| A．Parents and Children as Friends. | B．Parents and Professors as Debaters. |
| C．Growing Mutual Understanding. | D．Disappearing Responsibility. |
Impossible cases are not forever. While it is impossible for one person, it is possible for another. In a word, everything is possible.
Someone says, "Success belongs to those who can look at the complex challenges offered by the world as inspiration." So your challenges are golden opportunities for success. How can there be miracles if there are no obstacles? How will you chase the storm if there is no storm? You need challenges to reveal your ability. Success doesn’t come out’ of nothing; success comes from the problems you face. Those who refuse to give in
come out smiling.
Robert X. Perez says, "The seeds of success spring from failure’s ashes. "Failure is not defeat; it is the pointer to do better than what you just did. You have to know that you are in a constant study of life. What you face is for your training. Samuel Aidoo says, "Each failure is simply another chapter in the story of our lives. To fail is to understand what not to do. Remember it and don’t give up until your goal is achieved."
What do you do when you face difficulty? Yeah, life is difficult, but you do not give up.
Have a positive and calm outlook on your circumstances (状况) and make the best of them. You may learn something new. You can develop mental toughness. Mental toughness means to be able to see the long-term gains rather than be put off by short-term pains. Once you have this toughness, you have the winning edge(优势).
The only things in life you ever really regret are the chances you didn’t take. You will regret when you see the consequences of not seizing the opportunities when they arose. Take chances every day! The main point of the passage is that_________.
| A．success comes out of nothing |
| B．never give up and you may achieve success |
| C．everything is easy to deal with |
| D．impossible things do not exist |
According to the author, success often comes to people who_________.
| A．have good opportunities | B．face failure |
| C．don’t fear difficulties | D．have a lot of luck |
Which of the following statements is TRUE according to the passage?
| A．We can perform miracles by overcoming difficulty. |
| B．We will become greater after overcoming difficulty. |
| C．Most of us can’t show our ability because of difficulty. |
| D．Everyone will fail far numerous times because of difficulty. |
From Paragraph 3 we can learn that_________.
| A．all people can achieve success if they keep learning |
| B．failure means great success to everyone in the future |
| C．most people end up with failure because it often happens |
| D．failure can help people to achieve success if they don’t give up |
By saying "How will you chase the storm if there’s no storm?" the writer means_______.
| A．it’s not necessary to reveal your ability if you are successful |
| B．we should try our best to find challenges in order to be successful |
| C．we should not be afraid of challenges because they are opportunities for success |
| D．we shouldn’t expect miracles because they are always accompanied by obstacles |
Having put down your pens at the end of the college entrance exam, you have ended 12 years of hard study. Forget your studies for a while. It’s time to enjoy yourselves!
There are many ways to celebrate this special month of graduation. You can have photos taken with your classmates and teachers, or dine out together and exchange gifts.
High school students in Western countries such as the United States and Canada usually have a prom to mark their graduation. It’s to mark the time kids turn into young men and women. After the prom, teenagers either go to college or find a job. It means they are no longer as dependent on their parents as they were before.
At the prom, boys usually dress in dinner jackets and bow ties, though many different types of formal clothes are worn. Traditionally, girls give boys matching boutonnieres ( 佩带在扣眼上的花). Girls traditionally wear formal dresses, or dress to shock or be noticed, in shiny or brightly colored materials.
Common prom activities include dining, dancing, the crowning (加冠) of a prom king and queen, and just talking to friends. In some cases, high school students collect funds for their class prom through the four years of their high school.
High schools in or near large cities may rent ballrooms at expensive hotels or, to be unusual, in a pleasure cruise boat.
But often costs are cut by simply using the school gym. Students make a lot of effort to decorate the gym to make the event special. The music played at the prom will be the most popular kinds, like rock and hip-hop.
The students elect the Prom Queen. She is partnered with a Prom King who is elected similarly. These are great honors that the pair take very seriously. The two dance with each other to celebrate their election.The word "prom" is probably closest in meaning with________.
| A．a party to celebrate graduation | B．a dancing competition |
| C．a fashion show | D．an election ceremony |
Which of the following is an economical way to hold the prom?
| A．Renting a ballroom. | B．Taking a cruise boat. |
| C．Holding it in the school gym. | D．Wearing informal dresses. |
What clearly indicates that prom is very important to students?
| A．Music is played at the prom. |
| B．They take pictures at the prom. |
| C．The King and Queen dance with each other. |
| D．They wear formal clothes or special clothes. |
For what do the students just talk to friends at a prom?
| A．They don’t want to get help from their parents. |
| B．They will part with their friends in a short time. |
| C．They don’t like to be accompanied by their parents. |
| D．They want to be elected by their friends as the Prom King or Queen. |
How is the prom significant to the students?
| A．They can be relieved from the study pressure. |
| B．They are going to say goodbye to their friends. |
| C．They have chances to be elected as the Prom King or Queen. |
| D．The prom marks the graduation and after it they will be independent. |
Even after many years, she still has not forgotten the last day her whole class got together to say goodbye to their dearest schooldays. Those 36 memories always become vivid every time nostalgia (怀旧) drives her feet towards the old 37 , only to find a big old tree with all of their names carved deep into the 38 and the new school houses.
Time has changed each fate beyond any 39 .The jolly "dwarf"(快乐的矮子) of the class has now turned into a 40 businessman. The shy, skinny "bookworm" is now a talented Ph. D. That naughty girl has 41 the well-known athlete and the class beauty a movie star. But she, a 42 addict, was driven by an inner force to put her pen aside and becomes a 43 instead.
Now, she is a teacher, yet she has to 44 learning numerous difficult lessons of life. The more she 45 , the better she understands the value of her teacher's 46 lesson. She has given her students the whole-hearted 47 and tenderness that she once received from her teacher who passed 48 years ago.
Now and then, she catches 49 of a warm look in the eyes of her students, which encourages her to 50 . She hopes to find herself again in her students: always listening carefully and appreciating each 51 . To her, that will be the noblest award she could 52 receive in her teaching years.
She tells herself to try her best to understand and take life at its deepest. 53 she hasn't enough teaching experience she will give her students the 54 that are not written in the lesson plans, as her teacher used to do. Her teacher's 55 "The giving of love is an education in itself" will be always in her mind.
A．easy B．interesting C．unforgettable D．clear
A．place B．school C．town D．building
A．top B．leaf C．root D．trunk
A．expectation B．question C．answer D．plan
A．lucky B．successful C．brave D．loyal
A．become B．developed C．changed D．shown
A．drama B．film C．literature D．science
A．writer B．businessman C．headmaster D．teacher
A．continue B．agree C．support D．expect
A．hopes B．passes C．experiences D．meets
A．next B．present C．real D．last
A．enthusiasm B．explanation C．pleasure D．present
A．down B．out C．away D．by
A．eye B．sight C．view D．scene
A．set out B．go through C．carry on D．stay up
A．situation B．person C．environment D．lesson
A．still B．ever C．even D．yet
A．Though B．When C．Before D．Until
A．contributions B．teachings C．statements D．instructions
A．talking B．telling C．speaking D．saying
It is said that the famous football star is not willing to play for ____would pay him three million dollars a year.
| A．anyone | B．whomever | C．no matter who | D．whoever |
---.Don’t you think it necessary that he ____to Miami but to New York?
----I agree , but the problem is _____he has refused to.
| A．will not be sent ; that | B．not be sent ;that |
| C．should not be sent; what | D．should not send; what |
The car ran into a crowd of middle school students, ______to hospital immediately.
| A．two of whom sent | B．two of them sending |
| C．two of whom are sent | D．two of them sent |
The room with the window _____north wants______.
| A．facing; cleaned | B．faces; cleaning | C．faced; to be cleaned | D．facing; cleaning |
------Do you know if Linda is willing to take charge of the program?
------____,does it？
| A．It makes no time . | B．It counts for nothing. |
| C．It doesn’t hurt to ask.. | D．It doesn’t make sense. |
I guess we ‘ve already talked about this before but I’ll ask you again just _____.
| A．by nature | B．in return | C．in case | D．by chance |
I just choose a simpler lifestyle, ______where I can ride my bike all over and do not have to make a great living to survive.
| A．one | B．it | C．that | D．another |
According to the school rules, no student _____go out of the school after eleven o’clock at night without the teacher’s permission.
| A．will | B．must | C．may | D．shall |
_____,I managed to get the game and the pain was worth it in the end.
| A．Thankfully | B．Normally | C．Hopefully | D．Conveniently |
Do you expect _____to be a possibility that we shall be able to afford the particular furniture that we need.
| A．that | B．it | C．there | D．one |
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