I recently turned 30． Thinking back what I've experienced， I took some time to write myself some advice．

Trust

Even if it kills your relationship． Even if you lose your friends． Even if it means you end up getting hurt． （1） 　 　people even if they give you a reason not to．

But don't be too naive（幼稚）． Some people are out to hurt you．

People

People are the best and （2） 　 　thing that will happen to you． Some will help you go further and faster． Others will pull you down to their level and make you lose．

Most are OK． Many are average． Some are excellent． You don't need a lot of people or friends around you． You need amazing people who help you just （3） 　 　you help them． Only a few people will change your life forever． Find （4） 　 　．

Value time

Don't waste time on people who cheat you．

Value other people's （5） 　 　． Don't be late． That means that if you're late， you don't care about them or their time． And that also means you think you're worth more and therefore（因此） keep them （6） 　 　． Some people will tell you that it's OK to be late． It's not．

 Fail

Fail． Fail a lot． Fail often． Fail in making friends． Fail in work． （7） 　 　please don't lose your heart! Learn a lesson．

If you don't learn something when you fail， then all you've done is failed． If you learn something， then you've grown． Every time you grow and fail and learn， you become better at finding out the way to（8） 　 　．