I was recently invited to dinner by a friend. During the meal, the of the restaurant came over and said our meal was free. I was . He stood there smiling at me and there was an air of . Finally I asked him if he knew me. He said I had forgotten him, but I had his life. My friend was quite and asked him how I had done this.
He said twelve years ago I was teaching a stress management class and he was one of the . I asked the group what their number one was and most of them said it was from their bosses.
I listened to everyone, then a chair and invited everyone to stand on it. I wanted them to look at the room from there. After that, I asked the group to think about how the room looked when they changed their perspective (角度).
Then I asked them to their bosses. Was this the same person who had their good qualities and hired them? Do they remember how they were to be chosen for the job?
He said I looked at him and asked if he had ever thanked his boss for the to earn a living and him new skills and to be a better employee.
He said he went back to work the next day with a thank-you card to his . He learned to stress in a smart way. Now he has been the manager of the restaurant for eight years. He said I had taught him to life from different perspectives and to express .
A.waiter B.manager C.cook D.owner
A.satisfied B.excited C.surprised D.moved
A.familiarity B.understanding C.importance D.dignity
A.hardly B.rarely C.specially D.probably
A.changed B.Planned C.Built D.noticed
A.Patient B.anxious C.curious D.doubtful
A.employers B.students C.organizers D.teachers
A.joy B.stress C.danger D.pride
A.removed B.broke C.held D.took
A.down B.outside C.up D.inside
A.natural B.different C.funny D.strange
A.consider B.ask C.visit D.watch
A.seen B.predicted C.chosen D.improved
A.puzzled B.touched C.happy D.calm
A.ability B.chance C.process D.luck
A.allowing B.advising C.encouraging D.teaching
A.colleague B.customer C.boss D.parent
A.leave behind B.deal with C.suffer from D.bring about
A.look at B.talk about C.work on D.take over
A.apology B.regret C.appreciation D.Sympathy