You wake up in the morning, the day is beautiful and the plans for the day are what you have been looking forward to for a long time. Then the telephone rings, you say hello, and the play starts. The person on the other end has a sad tone in his voice as he starts to tell you how terrible his morning is and that there is nothing to look forward to. Yon are still in a wonderful mood(心情)? Impossible!
Communicating with negative people can wash out your happiness. It may not change what you think, but communicating long enough with them will make you feel unhappy for a moment or a long time.
Life brings ups and downs, but some people are trapped in the wrong idea that life has no happiness to offer. They only feel glad when they make others feel bad. It is not strange that they can hardly win others’ pity or respect.
When you communicate with happy people,you will stay happy. When the knife of a negative person is put in you, you feel the heavy feeling that, all in all, brings you down.
Sometimes we have no choice but to communicate with negative people. This could be a co-worker, or relative. In this situation, say what needs to be said as little as possible. Sometimes it feels good to let out your anger back to the negative person,but all this cannot reduce your bad feelings and they won’t feel ashamed(羞愧) of themselves about that.
Unhappiness often influences happiness without even being realized. The depressing(令人沮丧的) words of another at the start of the day can be with you throughout the rest of your day,which makes you feel bad and steals your happiness. Life is too short to feel unhappy.The purpose of the first paragraph is to _____________.
A.make a comparison(比较) | B.offer an evidence(证据) |
C.introduce a topic | D.describe a daily scene |
How can negative people have an effect on us?
A.By influencing our feelings. |
B.By telling people the nature of life. |
C.By changing our way of thinking. |
D.By comparing their attitude to life with ours. |
Some negative people base their happiness on ____________.
A.other people’s pity for them | B.making other people unhappy |
C.holding an active attitude | D.other people’s respect for them |
According to the passage, to reduce negative people's effect on us, we are advised _________.
A.to change negative people’s attitude to life |
B.to show our dislike to negative people |
C.to make negative people feel ashamed of themselves |
D.to communicate with negative people as little as possible |