It is natural that young people are often uncomfortable when they are with their parents . They say their parents don’t understand them .They often think that their parents are out of touch with modern ways , that they are too serious(严肃) — too strict with their children and that they seldom give their children a free hand . It is true that parents often find it difficult to win their children’s trust(信任) and they often forget how they themselves felt when they were young .
For example , young people like to act on the spot without much thinking . It is one of their ways to show they have grown up and that they can face any difficult situation . However , older people worry more easily . Most of old people plan things ahead , at least in the back of their minds , and do not like their plans to be upset by something unexpected .
When you want your parents to let you do something , you will have better success if you ask before you really start doing it .
Young people often make their parents angry with their choices in clothes and in music . But they do not want to cause any trouble ; it is just that they feel cut off from the older people’s world , into which they have not yet been accepted . That’s why young people want to make a new culture of their own . And if their parents do not like their music or hairstyle or clothes or their ways of speech , this will make the young people very happy .
Sometimes you are so proud of yourself that you do not want your parents to say “yes” to what you do . All you want is to be left alone and do what you like . It is natural enough , after being a child for so many years , when you were completely under your parents’ control .
If you plan to control your life , you’d better win your parents over and try to get them to understand
you. If your parents see that you have a high sense of responsibility , they will certainly give you the right to do what you want to do .
Whom is this text written for ?
A.Parents |
B.Both parents and their children |
C.Young people |
D.Teachers |
The underlined expression “on the spot ” means ______ .
A.at the place where something happened. |
B.by oneself |
C.immediately |
D.angrily |
According to the text , young people usually ______ .
A.ask for advice before they really start to do anything |
B.do things without thinking carefully ahead |
C.are very strict with themselves |
D.think in the same way as their parents do |
Why do young people like to have clothes and music in their own way ?
A.Because they want to make their parents angry . |
B.Because they try to get their parents into trouble . |
C.Because they want to try something new and look different from the older people . |
D.Because they know they are cleverer than the older people . |