If you wish to dance with a certain lady, go to her, bow, and say, “May I have the pleasure of a dance?” If it is a formal dance with programs, she will tell you which dance she will have with you; if there are no programs, she will either rise and dance with you, or she may say, “I have this dance taken.” Or she may say, “I am sorry, I am not dancing this dance.” This may be a polite way of saying that she does not want to dance with you, or it may be that she is tired and wants to rest; you will have to judge which is her attitude.
Do not expect a lady whom you have invited to dance in advance for a dance to make any attempt to find you. It is her part to remain seated until you find her. Bow and say, “I believe this is my dance.”
At the end of a dance, thank your partner, but do not leave her until you have led her to a seat. Then, if you wish, you may excuse yourself, and go in search of your next partner.
If you cannot dance very well, it is always permissible to ask a lady if she is willing to sit out a dance with you. Sometimes during the evening, your hostess, the daughter of the hostess, and any guest of honor should all be asked by you to dance.
When a lady says, “I am sorry I am not dancing this dance.”, she actually means .
A.she is not willing to dance with you |
B.she is too tired to dance with you |
C.she is not good at dancing at all |
D.either A or B |
If you have already made an appointment with a lady at the ball, .
A.it is her duty to find you |
B.it is still your duty to find her |
C.it is both of your duty to find each other |
D.you wait and wait until it is your turn to dance with her |
At the end of the dance, .
A.you leave your partner and go to find your next partner |
B.you thank your partner and leave her |
C.you should introduce your partner to another gentleman |
D.none of the above is right |
The underlined phrase “sit out” means .
A.to dance slowly |
B.to sit there and dance |
C.to dance without moving |
D.to remain seated during a dance |