I think that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most 36 thing we ever give to each other is our attention (注意力). Especially if it’s 37 from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do 38 but receive them. Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times 39 about it is even more important than understanding it.
One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story, people often 40 to tell her that they once had something just 41 that happened to her. Her pain became a story about 42 . So, finally she stopped 43 to most people because she just felt too lonely. When we interrupt what someone is 44 to let them know that we understand, we 45 the focus of attention to ourselves. But if we just 46 , they know we care. Many people with cancer can talk about the relief (宽慰) of having someone just listen.
I have 47 learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. I 48 that passing a person a tissue (面巾纸) may be just another 49 to shut them down and take them out of their experience of 50 . Now I just listen. When they have 51 all they need to cry, they find me there with them.
This 52 thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been taught since I was very 53 . I thought people listened only 54 they were too shy to speak or did not know the 55 . A loving silence often has far more power to heal than words.
A．easy B．important C．stupid D．terrible
A．used B．lost C．got D．given
A．anything B．everything C．something D．nothing
A．worrying B．complaining C．caring D．dreaming
A．decided B．managed C．preferred D．interrupted
A．by B．like C．about D．with
A．themselves B．ourselves C．himself D．yourself
A．working B．studying C．talking D．smiling
A．writing B．saying C．reading D．copying
A．learn B．stop C．leave D．move
A．smell B．speak C．listen D．watch
A．even B．hardly C．early D．never
A．explained B．realized C．expected D．imagined
A．question B．touch C．love D．way
A．regret B．happiness C．sadness D．anger
A．cried B．shouted C．called D．whispered
A．difficult B．simple C．funny D．whole
A．old B．tall C．young D．beautiful
A．if B．but C．or D．because
A．plan B．result C．answer D．award
When I began planning to move to Auckland to study .my mother was worried about a lack of jobs and cultural differences, Ignoring these ,I got there in July 2010, I arrived ,I realized the importance of getting a job my living experience, Determined to do this , I spent several weeks going door-to-door for a job, but found response.
One afternoon, I walked into a building to ask there were any job opportunities，The people there advised me not to continue my job search in that .As I was about to . a man who had been listening approached me and asked me to wait outside .Nearly ten minutes later, he ,He asked me about my plans and encouraged me to stay . Then he offered to take me to Royal Oak to a job.
I was a little surprised. but had a feeling about him. Along the way ,I realized that I had resumes(简历).Seeing this, the man at his business partner’s office to make me fifteen copies. He also gave me some on dressing and speaking. I handed out my resume and went home feeling very . The following day, I received a from a store in Royal Oak offering me a job.
It seems that the world always to you when you need it .And this time, it was a complete stranger who turned out to be a real blessing.
A．doubts B．concerns C．instructions D．reasons
A．Even if B．Every time C．Now that D．Soon after
A．of B．at C．for D．with
A．on my own B．on my way C．by any chance D．by the day
A．any B．much C．some D．little
A．why B．wherever C．whether D．whenever
A．direction B．attitude C．language D．manner
A．answer B．work C．leave D．refuse
A．for ever B．at any time C．as usual D．for a while
A．returned B．hesitated C．passed D．regretted
A．silent B．busy C．positive D．comfortable
A．pick out B．search for C．take on D．give up
A．dull B．good C．guilty D．general
A．made use of B．taken care of C．run out of D．become tired of
A．stopped B．knocked C．glanced D．appeared
A．right B．more C．former D．different
A．pressures B．agreements C．impression D．suggestions
A．lonely B．funny C．disappointed D．satisfied
A．call B．tip C．present D．report
A．turns off B．goes over C．gives back D．looks up
It was Mother's Day and I was shopping at the local supermarket with my five-year-old son, Tenyson. As we were.we realized that only minutes earlier anwoman had fallen over at the entrance and hit her head on the ground.was with her, but there was blood everywhere and the woman was embarrassed and clearly in shock.a lot of people stopped to help out.
we were walking towards the scene, Tenyson became veryabout what had happened to the elderly couple. Heto me, "Mom, it's not much fun falling over in front of." Seeing that there was a flower stall（摊位）at the front of the supermarket, he added, "Why shouldn't wethe lady a flower? It will make her feel better." I wasthat he'd come up with thisidea. So we went over and told the flower sellerwe wanted. "Just take it," she replied. "Itake your money for such a wonderful."
By now medical staff had arrived, and werethe injured woman. We gave the flower to the woman's husband and I told him it was my son. At that, the old man started crying and said, "Thank you very much." He then turned to me, "You have ason. Happy Mother's Day to you."
The man bent down and gave his wife the flower, telling ger who it was from.being badly hurt, the old lady looked up at Tenyson within her eyes and gave him a little.
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Cultural differences occur wherever you go. When visiting another country, you should be aware of those differences and _______ them. Here are some _______ on how to fit in.
Every traveler to a foreign country feels _______ at some point. What you do can make locals laugh. Your best defense is a sense of _______. If you can laugh off eating with the wrong hand in India, locals will warm to you as “that crazy foreigner.”
Wearing proper cloths is important too, _______ locals will judge by what you wear. In some Middle Eastern countries, exposing your flesh is _______, especially if you are a woman. So leave your torn jeans at home.
Also be cautious about expressing _______. Getting angry in Southeast Asia just makes you look silly. In some countries it is _______ to kiss in public.
A．reject B．recite C．respect D．remove
A．plans B．tips C．arguments D．choices
A．unsafe B．excited C．satisfied D．awkward
A．relief B．belonging C．humor D．direction
A．but B．for C．so D．or
A．forbidden B．allowed C．expected D．tolerated
A．emotions B．concern C．interest D．views
A．natural B．advisable C．unwise D．unnecessary
Five months after my husband Steve died, I woke up one morning to the maddening sound of a leaking faucet（水龙头）. I knew it needed repairs badly, but it1me so much just to think of it.
All our2life, I was the "artist" bringing to our house much imagination. Steve was the"3" one. He had a real gift for handling chores（家务活），4me from unpleasant repair jobs.
But how could such a good man have his life cut short so suddenly! I had been so sad and angry that I completely5the house. That leaky faucet somehow awakened me to the fact that I now had to6the challenge of getting things fixed.
I got a workman named Ahmed. Entering the house, he stopped before a picture of Steve and me. "Doesn't your husband7this kind of work?" he asked. "It's not hard."
"He died months ago. When he was alive, he did all the repair jobs8." I said quietly. Ahmed looked at me9, but he didn't reply. He fixed the faucet, adjusted the dishwasher door, and replaced a showerhead. Apparently he was gifted as Steve had been.
He did a(n)10job. I asked him to name his fee. "No charge, Ma'am," he said. "My father died early, and the neighbors helped my family through."
By fixing a faucet, Ahmed mended my soul. Although I would sure carry the pain of11with me along, Ahmed reminded me of the abundant12in the world.
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I had worried myself sick over Simon's mother coming to see me. I was a new1, and I gave an honest account of the students' work. In Simon's case, the grades were awfully low. He couldn't read his own handwriting.2he was a bright student. He discussed adult subjects with nearly adult comprehension. His work in no way reflected his3.
So when Simon's mother entered the room, my palms(手掌心) were sweating. I was completely4 for her lisses on both my cheeks. "I came to thank you," she said, surprising me beyond speech.5me, Simon had become a different person. He talked of how he6me, he had began to make friends, and for the first time in his twelve years, he had7spent an afternoon at a friend's house. She wanted to tell me how grateful she was for the8I had nurtured(培养) in her son. She kissed me again and left.
sat, stunned (惊呆), for about half an hour,9what had just happened. How did I make such a life-changing difference to that boy without10knowing it? What I finally came to11was one day, several months before, when some students were12reports in the front of the class, Jeanne spoke13, and to encourage her to raise her voice, L had sai, "Speak up. Simon's the expert on this. He is the14one you have to convince, and he can't hear you in the15of the room." That was it. From that day on, Simon had sat up straighter, paid more attention,16more, and became happy. And it was all because he17to be the last kid in the last row. The boy who most needed18was the one who took the last seat that day.
It taught me the most19lesson over the years of my teaching career, and I'm thankful that it came20and positively. A small kindness can indeed make a difference.
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