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One evening, I came across one of my son’s papers with a failing grade. I almost started to yell his name   31  I suddenly remembered he was in bed asleep. It was his   32 (nine) year of school and his academic career seemed to be in ruins, so I was angry. But I put the paper aside and turned to the   33  one, at the top of which were written “My dad”. It was a poem about me,   34  included the time I had to leave work to take him to the hospital because he   35 (break) his finger. So careless was I   36  I had forgotten all about that.
He talked about how I wrestled with him in the evenings and   37  good many other things. That paper was suddenly not nearly as important as it had been a few minutes   38 . I don’t know if he planted the poem next to the failing grade to   39 (soft) the blow, but it worked. Instead of a severe lecture, I talked to him about the poem as well as the failed homework, and it began to make sense to me that I could include praise along   40  constructive criticism.