Anyone who has been a parent knows that raising children is a tough job. It is filled with as many difficult and moments as with moments of joy. Children don’t come with an instruction manual(说明书). And each child is . So parents sometimes feel , not knowing what to do.
But in raising children—as in all of life—what we do is by our culture. Naturally then, American parents teach their children basic American . To Americans, the goal of parents is to help children become . From childhood, each child may get his or her own room. As children grow, they get more to make their own choices. Teenagers choose their own forms of entertainment, as well as the friends to share them with. When they reach young adulthood, they their own jobs and marriage partners. Of course, many young adults seek their parents’ advice and approval for the choice they make. But once they “ the nest ” at around 18 to 21 years old, they want to be on their own, not tied to their mother’s apron strings (围裙带).
The between parents and children in America is very informal. American parents try to treat their children as individuals—not as of themselves. They them to achieve their own dreams . Americans praise and encourage their children to give them the to succeed. When children become adults, their relationship with their parents becomes more like a among equals. But contrary to popular belief, most adult Americans don’t make their parents pay for room and board when they come to visit. Even as adults, they respect and honor their parents.
A.delightful B.meaningful C.hopeful D.painful
A.strange B.different C.new D.similar
A.excited B.frightened C.puzzled D.surprised
A.influenced B.made C.controlled D.changed
A.services B.standards C.languages D.values
A.brave B.active C.independent D.optimistic
A.freedom B.space C.time D.money
A.love B.change C.design D.choose
A.still B.then C.thus D.therefore
A.build B.get C.enter D.leave
A.conversation B.relationship C.competition D.gap
A.friends B.children C.teenagers D.extensions
A.allow B.force C.forbid D.persuade
A.dependence B.trust C.belief D.confidence
A.friendship B.citizenship C.membership D.leadership