Making new friends means        (put) yourself on a limb（困境） and asking others not only to accept you ,but to like you and want to be around you as well .            ( fortunate ) , there is no magical solution             this part of the process , so if you want to make friends , take a deep breath and jump right in .
     first step to make new friends is figuring out what is holding you back . A lot of times people            are interested in making new friends don’t know why they don’t have them . They can’t see that       own actions are working against them .
Once you can identify what is keeping you from making new friends , you need to work through these concerns . This can be painful           you will need to put yourself outside of your comfort zones to see any real differences .
The next step is to shine in these social settings so that others will leave with a positive         (impress) . if you find social situations hard , just rely on a few simple rules .
When you feel            (confidence) that you’ve made some great friends , get out there and celebrate with them . No matter             you decide to do , the important thing is to celebrate your new friends and hopefully continue cultivating (结交)  more.