We’ve all felt discouragement at one point or another in our lives. However, when this emotion bleeds into other aspects of our life, it can sometimes be inappropriate or even harmful.
I was personally discouraged by an adult during my high school. After telling her what university I wanted to attend, she plainly told me I would not get in. I was completely shocked and angry at her statement. The adult may have not intended to hurt me with her words, but it had an after effect. The meeting made me think she had no belief that I could possibly succeed in the future. After that it caused me to try to avoid any future meeting with adults until absolutely necessary.
We are all human; therefore, we can all understand that some days are more challenging. But when people allow situations of stress to consume(充满) them, they cannot perform their best. People should pay attention to how their reactions could affect the person they are interacting with. People have the potential to perform their best when they are indulged in the task at hand, but adults who come off in a rude and aggressive way through communication have an effect on teenagers’ mind.
Adults whether in schools, or any other institutions should work to tear down walls gently and create a safe space for the person they are serving. These adults should also help and contribute to a person’s academic, personal and professional growth. High school is an important time when young people need someone to believe in them.
In conclusion, I would like to add that it is not completely up to adults only. Students are responsible for seeking help from adults who are in authority(权威) positions. They are also responsible for the way they approach adults in their academic surroundings. Students can expect to be treated in a respectful way when they express at the beginning. Generally the responsibility lies on both parties. When both sides can communicate in a polite manner then the complete environment of the school has the potential to develop well.
The passage is mainly about ______.
A.the adults’ roles in school |
B.the skill to encourage students |
C.the way to communicate with children |
D.the importance of personal professional growth |
Who are responsible for children’s development at school according to the writer?
A.Students. | B.Teachers. |
C.Headmasters. | D.Both students and teachers. |
The underlined phrase probably “are indulged in” means “______”.
A.are weak in | B.are amazed at |
C.are interested in | D.are unbearable with |
The writer once tried to avoid meetings with adults because ______.
A.he was very busy |
B.he thought highly of himself |
C.he was once hurt by an adult |
D.he couldn’t get high marks at school |