Are you the type of person who always says yes? However, it’s OK to say no! People are still going to like you. They may even respect you more because they know you are honest.
I’m not saying that you should say no to someone who really needs your help. I’m talking about turning down the meeting that you really do not want to go to or the birthday party that you don’t want to be a guest at.
Think for a moment how you feel when you say yes to something that you really don’t want to do. If you’re like what I once was, you can’t sleep at night and you think about it too much. It weighs on your mind. You try to find ways out. If you really want to go, you will not have all of these thoughts.
So, why not just say no from the beginning? Maybe you think if you don’t show up at the meeting (by the way, it is not one you must go to), your boss isn’t going to like you or your co-workers won’t respect you. Maybe you feel as if your mom, dad or sisters won’t love you as much if you don’t do everything for them.
If these people are your true friends, family members, or a good boss, they will like or love you the same. People treat you the way you teach them to, and if you’re someone who always says yes then that’s what they’re expecting.
You need to do what is right for you. Of course we do have real obligations (责任) in life to meet, but we do not have to do everything others want us to do.
In the writer’s opinion, .
A.we must do what is right for other people |
B.it is not always easy to win friends’ trust |
C.saying yes is the best way to win others’ respect |
D.learning to say no is very important in our life |
The underlined sentence “It weighs on your mind” in the third paragraph probably means “ ”.
A.you are worried about it very much |
B.you try to find excuses to refuse it |
C.you are too busy to care about it |
D.it fills your mind with good ideas |
According to the writer, if you always say yes, .
A.your family members will love you more |
B.your friends will soon get tired of you |
C.people will expect you to do what they want you to do |
D.you will have little chance of success in your life |
We can learn from the passage that the writer .
A.seldom said no to people around him/her at one time |
B.gets along badly with his/her boss and co-workers now |
C.always makes his/her parents angry by refusing them |
D.thinks it his/her own obligation to help those in need |