Negative thinking appears to be more prevalent than positive thinking. It seems that with most people positive thinking requires some effort, while negative thinking comes easily and uninvited. This has much to do with education and the environment one has been living in.
If you have been brought up in a happy and positive atmosphere, where people value success and self-improvement, then it will be easier for you to think positively and expect success. If you have been brought up under poor or difficult situations, you will probably go on expecting difficulties and failure.
We all view everything through our main mental attitude. If our thoughts are positive, that is fine, but if they are negative, our lives and circumstances will probably mirror these thoughts.
If you believe that you are going to fail, you will unconsciously destroy every opportunity to succeed. If you are afraid of meeting new people or having close relationships, you will do everything to avoid people and relationships, and then complain that you are lonely and nobody loves you.
Do you often think about difficulties, failure and disasters? Do you keep thinking about the negative news you have seen on the TV or read in the newspapers?
Do you see yourself stuck and unable to improve your life or your health? Do you frequently think that you do not deserve happiness or money, or that it is too difficult to get them? If you do, then you will close your mind, see no opportunities, and behave and react in such ways, as to turn away from people and opportunities.
The mind does not usually judge or examine thoughts and opinions before accepting them. If what it hears, sees and reads is always negative, it accepts this as the standard way of thinking and behavior.
Open your mind to positive attitude, happenings and events. Expect them and think about them, and soon your life will change for the better.
According to the author, happy and positive situations cause people to________.
A.turn away from people and opportunities |
B.expect difficulties and failure |
C.viewing everything by negative thinking |
D.think positively and expect success |
Some people think that they have few friends in their lives perhaps because________.
A.their thoughts are positive |
B.their thoughts are negative |
C.they avoid people and relationships |
D.destroy every opportunity to make friends |
What does the author want to tell us in the fifth and sixth paragraphs?
A.one has no reasons for his negative thinking and behavior |
B.one mustn’t always think about difficulties, failure and disasters |
C.one’s living environment has the decisive function upon his thinking |
D.one should never think of things happily and positively |
From the passage we can learn that________.
A.positive thinking has much to do with education and the environment one has been living in |
B.thinking negatively is much easier than thinking positively |
C.the moment you see something sad, you will feel sad too |
D.the positively we think and behave, the happier we will be |