What to do if you don’t feel popular?
·Try to take part in activities.Call your friends.Plan to do something.The worst feeling is staying home alone,because it makes you feel even more lonely.
·Try to make new friends.Choose friends carefully,not just because you think they’re popular.And remember,making good friends takes time.Choosing popular people to be friends with is OK,if they are nice.
·Be yourself(保持独立).If you want to become friends with someone who’s popular,don’t make yourself into someone you are not just to impress that person.
·Be nice.Be friendly.Be outgoing.But don’t overdo it! Talk to trusted friends if you are feeling really bad.Or you might want to write it down in a journal(日志) or diary.
·Do something special for yourself.You could take pictures of your friends,or collect their school pictures,and take a collage(拼贴画)to hang on your wall.This will remind you when you are feeling unpopular,that you really do have friends.
·Think up your own ideas.These suggestions might not work for everyone.
What to do if you have a problem with your teacher?
·Talk to your parents,or another adult who will listen to you and perhaps can help.Talk to your friends.Maybe they have had problems with the same teacher,too.
·Don’t give the teacher a reason to have problems with you.Do your work,complete your task,attend the class and take notes seriously.Maybe you just need to give the teacher a chance.
·Try to find out what the problem is.
·Talk to the teacher if you feel comfortable doing this.Don’t be nasty(闹别扭的),but tell your teacher what your concerns(忧虑) are.Listen to the teacher,as well.
·Just accept the fact that you’re not going to love all your teachers.
How to Make You Feel _________ |
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How to_____ Your Problem with Your Teachers |
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Dos |
Don’ts |
Talk to your parents, or another adult or your friends about your problems |
Never be too worried about the problems all by yourself. |
Make new friends. |
Don’t make bad friends. |
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Be yourself. |
Don’t make yourself into someone you are not just to ____ that person. |
Do your work, complete your task, attend the class and take notes seriously in order to give the teacher a ______. |
Don’t give the teacher a reason to have ____ with you. |
Take part in activities |
Don’t stay home alone, or it will make you feel even more______. |
Find out what the problem is. |
Never think that you are always ________ and the teacher is always wrong. |
Be nice, friendly and ___________. |
Never overdo it! |
Talk to the teacher and __________ your concerns if you feel comfortable doing this. |
Don’t be nasty. |
Do something special for yourself by taking picture of your friends, collecting their school pictures, or _____ collage to hang on your wall. |
Don’t let yourself be far away from your friends. |