Some expectations are good to have and some are unhealthy. Here’s a list of expectations that if you have, you need to change. By changing certain expectations in your life, you are opening yourself up to new experiences, new ways of thinking and even a greater sense of accomplishment that you otherwise could not have received.
1. Stop Expecting People to be Perfect:
If you have this mindset, you will always be disappointed. People will never live up to your expectations. There’s nothing wrong with having high expectations for people, but understand that when they fail, and they will, they still tried. Be understanding and don’t expect perfection.
2. Stop Expecting the Worst from People:
On the flip side, if you’re always expecting people to fail, you’re not giving them the chance to succeed. Encourage those around you. Help them, teach them. That’s how they will grow and be able to accomplish hard things.
3.______________________________:
Your finances are your responsibility. You shouldn’t expect people to pay for your entertainment, your bills or even your groceries. Get in control of your money. Once you have a budget, stick to it. Just because all your friends go out to lunch doesn’t mean you have to. There are differences between needs and wants—if you want something, save up for it; don’t expect your friends or family to pitch in and get it for you.
4. Stop Expecting Things to Always Go Wrong:
Whatever streak of bad luck you may think you’ve been having, you shouldn’t come to expect that out of everything. Learn to stay positive. If you look for the good in things you will find them, and it’s the same with bad things. If your whole focus is on situations never turning out how you want them to, they never will.
Having expectations is about finding balance in life. You have to know when you’re asking too much and when you can ask for more. It can be hard but we all need to let go of our unrealistic expectations and learn to live a healthier, happier life.
Why shouldn’t we expect people to be perfect?
A.It’s wrong to have high expectations for people. |
B.People are disappointing. |
C.No one can do as well as you expect. |
D.When they fail they still tried. |
Fill in the blanks with a correct sentence________.
A.Stop Expecting Something for Nothing |
B.Stop Expecting People to Change |
C.Stop Expecting Fairness in Everything |
D.Stop Expecting People to Pay for You |
Which of the following is TRUE according to the passage?
A.We shouldn’t give others the chance to succeed |
B.We shouldn’t expect to live a healthier, happier life. |
C.If you look for the bad in things you will find them. |
D.If you want something, expect your friends to pay for you. |
What would be the best title for the passage?
A.Live up to your expectations |
B.Change your expectations |
C.Accomplish your expectations |
D.Believe your expectations |