In this age of Internet chat, videogames and reality television, there is no shortage of mindless activities to keep a child occupied. Yet, despite the competition, my 8-year-old daughter Rebecca wants to spend her leisure time writing short stories. She wants to enter one of her stories into a writing contest, a competition she won last year.
As a writer I know about winning contests, and about losing them. I know what it is like to work hard on a story only to receive a rejection slip from the publisher. I also know the pressures of trying to live up to a reputation created by previous victories. What if she doesn’t win the contest again? That’s the strange thing about being a parent. So many of our own past scars and dashed hopes can surface.
A revelation (启示) came last week when I asked her, “Don’t you want to win again?” “No,” she replied, “I just want to tell the story of an angel going to first grade.”
I had just spent weeks correcting her stories as she spontaneously (自发地) told them. Telling myself that I was merely an experienced writer guiding the young writer across the hall, I offered suggestions for characters, conflicts and endings for her tales. The story about a fearful angel starting first grade was quickly “guided” by me into the tale of a little girl with a wild imagination taking her first music lesson. I had turned her contest into my contest without even realizing it.
Staying back and giving kids space to grow is not as easy as it looks. Because I know very little about farm animals who use tools or angels who go to first grade, I had to accept the fact that I was co-opting (借用) my daughter’s experience.
While stepping back was difficult for me, it was certainly a good first step that I will quickly follow with more steps, putting myself far enough away to give her room but close enough to help if asked. All the while I will be reminding myself that children need room to experiment, grow and find their own voices. What did the author say about her own writing experience?
| A.She was constantly under pressure of writing more. |
| B.Most of her stories had been rejected by publishers. |
| C.Her way to success was full of pains and frustrations. |
| D.She did not quite live up to her reputation as a writer. |
Why did Rebecca want to enter this year’s writing contest?
| A.She wanted to share her stories with readers. |
| B.She had won a prize in the previous contest. |
| C.She was sure of winning with her mother’s help. |
| D.She believed she possessed real talent for writing. |
The author took great pains to refine her daughter’s stories because ________.
| A.she wanted to help Rebecca realize her dream of becoming a writer |
| B.she believed she had the knowledge and experience to offer guidance |
| C.she did not want to disappoint Rebecca who needed her help so much |
| D.she was afraid Rebecca’s imagination might run wild while writing |
What’s the author’s advice for parents?
| A.Children should be given every chance to voice their opinions. |
| B.Children should be allowed freedom to grow through experience. |
| C.Parents should keep an eye on the activities their kids engage in. |
| D.A writing career, though attractive, is not for every child to pursue. |