A man was driving at 70 miles in a 40-mile-zone, when a police car came behind him with the light on.
As the policeman came to him, he said, "Hi, officer, I guess you caught me a little bit over the limit. I was in a rush to get home, to be with my wife and kids, you know my younger son wasn't feeling too well when I left home this morning."
The policeman said, "Well, I guess so,'' and started writing something in his notebook. . A few moments later, the policeman came to his window and handed him a paper, and returned to his car without saying a single word. The man started to wonder, how much this ticket was going to be as he began to look at the paper.
"I had a daughter who was killed by a speeding car at the age of six, by a speeding driver like you. He got a fine, a few months in prison, and was free, free to hug two other daughters. I have tried to forgive that man a thousand times, and I thought I had. Maybe I really did forgive him, but I have to do it again, even right now.
"
The man was very surprised and could not move for the next few minutes. When finally he did, he drove slowly, even a few miles under the speed limit, praying for forgiveness.
| A．So pray for me and be careful when you drive again, my son is all I have left. |
| B．I only had one, and now I have to wait I go to heaven before I can hug her again. |
| C．As minutes went by, he could see from the side view mirror, the policeman was still writing. |
| D．He was surprised it was not a ticket but a receipt. |
E．So pray for you, and be careful when you drive again, your daughter is all you have left.
F．Right away the man started thinking of excuse to give.
G．He was surprised it was not a ticket as he began to read.
Doctors say anger can be an extremely damaging emotion, unless you learn how to deal with it. So what exactly do you know about anger? Some people express anger openly in a calm, reasonable way. Others burst with anger, and scream and yell. But other people keep their anger inside. They can not or will not express it. This is called repressing anger. For years many doctors thought that repressing anger was more dangerous to a person’s health than expressing it. They said that when a person is angry, the brain releases some hormones (荷尔蒙). They speed the heart rate, raise blood pressure, or sugar into the blood, etc.
So is there any solution? They say the first step is to admit that you are angry and to recognize the real cause of the anger, then decide if the cause is serious enough to get angry about. If it is, they say, “
Wait until your anger has cooled down and you are able to express yourself calmly and reasonably.”
Doctors say that a good way to deal with anger is to find humor in the situation that has made you angry.
| A．Thus, the person feels excited and ready to act. |
| B．Humor can help you deal with anger better and bring you laughter. |
| C．Do not express your anger while angry. |
| D．Anger is a normal emotion that we all feel from time to time. |
E. Doctors say the solution is learning how to deal with anger.
A lack of self-respect can prevent you from fulfilling your potential and developing healthy relationships. Here are some steps to help you know how to respect yourself.__________ The qualities that we respect vary from person to person, and the way we express it varies from culture to culture. Generally, we respect people who have more experience and are more accomplished than ourselves. But there is also a basic level of respect that most people will agree is a right, and does not need to be earned. So think about what it means to respect others. Here are some widely agreed-upon signals of respect: You don’t steal from, harm, or insult them; you are honest with them; you listen to what they say, consider their opinions, and avoid interrupting them.
__________ We often do things for ourselves that we would never dream of doing for someone we care about. Whatever you believe to be respectful, apply it to yourself. Don’t harm yourself. Don’t insult yourself. Don’t steal from yourself. Be honest with yourself. Develop your own opinions and don’t be afraid to stand by them.
__________ A person with self-respect doesn’t allow others to treat them badly, and would rather not be around someone who is disrespectful. This might seem obvious, but there are many times when we accept being treated badly. When someone doesn’t give you basic respect, you need to be able to say, in one way or another, “You just disrespected me and that’s not acceptable!
If you don’t respect me, I won’t spend time with you any more.” Can you say that, and mean it?
Can you turn your back on someone who’s clearly shown that they don’t respect you? Once you do, you’ll feel your sense of self-respect go up.__________ When you make an effort to keep your body in good working order, you’ll not only feel better physically, but also feel a sense of pride. Respecting your body also means not insulting it for what it is, naturally. Make an effort to get fit and stay healthy. Focus on the things you can change and improve, and do them because it feels good.
__________ The more you know about yourself, the more you’ll see and appreciate how unique you really are. And you’ll respect yourself more. Discover your principles, personality, and talents. Stop waiting for other people’s approval and start developing your own standards. Develop a unique and original way of expressing your opinions while at the same time being a good listener.
| A．Get to know yourself. |
| B．Take care of your body. |
| C．Practice basic respect towards yourself. |
| D．Be honest with yourself and with others. |
E. Think about what it means to respect someone.
F. Recognize when people disrespect you and take steps to stop it.
根据对话内容，从对话后的选项中选出能填人空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项多余选项。
—Hello, darling. I've just heard I have to go to Italy for a couple of days. I am flying this evening.
—Oh, David. You know the Johnsons are coming around to see us tonight.
—Yes, I know. But I can't help it. They'll have to come some other time.
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—No, I am afraid we have to change all our plans.
—All fight, David.
—I am taking the 7 o'clock plane to Rome.
—Are you coming home before you go to the airport?
—I am afraid I can't.
—What about your suitcase?
—I am afraid you'll have to pack it for me.
—And who is fetching it for you?
—You'll bring it, darling.
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—Because you are coming with me. It's your birthday on Saturday and this trip is my birthday present for you. I'll meet you at the airport, three quarters before the flight. Don't forget anything and don't be late. See you later, darling.
| A．When exactly are you leaving then? |
| B．I am still having a talk with my boss here. |
| C．What's the matter? |
| D．Why me? |
E. Do you really have to go?
F. It's a pity that we have to change our plans.
G. Then we won't be able to go to the theater tomorrow.
根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项，选项中有两项为多余选项。（如果所用的答题卡没有E、F、G选项，则选E涂A、B，选F涂A、C，选G涂A、D．）
How do you stay true to yourself when you're surrounded by friends and/or family that have an opinion on everything you do? It's not easy! Here are 4 tips which can help you live a dynamic life．
Stay true to yourself by listening to the only opinions that really matter - your own and those from people who believe in and encourage you．Deep down you know yourself better than anybody else．
Don't fear people The reason most people don't take risks, or live on the edge is the fear of what others might think of them．If you want to live the life you truly deserve, you must give up the need to be liked by everybody．
Value yourself and your choices
When you do, others will too．Own the choices you make in your life． When you believe in yourself, in time, others will believe in you too．Show confidence in your choices, and what you stand for whether others agree or not．
Focus on appreciation
No matter what the circumstances are, there is always something to be grateful for．All successful people ask, What am I grateful furl How can / improve my situation and use these tough times to inspire others These steps, if applied, will help you transform your peace of mind, lifestyle, and productivity．
| A．Focus on your own talents and strengths |
| B．Never let others' opinions guide your choices |
| C．Treat every person like they are important． |
| D．When you doubt yourself, others will doubt you． |
E．Stay fearless in everything you will have to do．
F．Be thankful to life and be helpful to others, and you’ll lead a successful life．
G. However, there are great possibilities that you can lead the life you really want．
Sometimes they try to get out of a class to escape a teacher they don’t like．Here is some advice to solve this problem．
Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this teacher?” Even if you don’t worship （崇拜） his or her personality or lectures, dig deep until you find a subject in which he or she is very knowledgeable．Focus on that part of the teacher’s personality, and use him or her as a tool for learning．Not only will you gain more knowledge in that subject, but a closer relationship with your teacher may help you understand one another better．
Talk to students who are doing well in the class and ask them for tips, tools, and a plan of action to get along with the teacher better．
If you still can’t get along, make an appointment with the school guidance counselor （辅导员）．He or she will offer many tips and suggestions for you to get out of difficult teacher relationships． That means they can help you and your teachers get rid of the bad impression on each other．
Your parents can meet with your teacher and try to work it out．
Teachers are there for more than just homework, and they know about more than just their subject matter．They can help you learn how to function as an adult and a lifelong learner．
Undoubtedly, these will be a few teachers along the way who you will always remember and who might change your life forever．
| A．Sometimes a guidance counselor can act as a mediator between you and the teacher． |
| B．If you’re too shy to talk to another student, study his or her actions and behavior in the classroom and try to follow that lead． |
| C．Guidance counselors have the right to blame teachers． |
| D．There must be something good in every teacher for you to learn from． |
E．Students find it easy to get along well with their teachers．
F．If your relationship problems can’t be solved in school, then it’s time to tell your parents or guardians．
G．Students don’t always get along well with their teachers．
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