“Big boys don’t cry.” I heard those words a lot 36 up in America in the late sixties and early seventies. In those days men were expected to be 37 and rugged and never shed a tear no matter what. Our 38 were all stone faced cowboys who were too 39 to cry. Believing this then I tried my best 40 to cry at all during my teenage and early adult years.
All that changed, 41 , as I was driving home alone one night shortly after my Mom 42 . It was dark and raining outside. I was struggling to 43 the car on the road while at the same time 44 to hold the tears back in my eyes. I remember almost going off the road twice as I blinked back (眨眼控制) the salty water that was burning my 45 and blurring (使模糊) my vision. My hands shook, my heart 46 , and my soul felt dead. 47 I could do it no longer. I stopped, pulled over, lay my head on the steering wheel, and 48 . I cried until the tears couldn’t fall anymore. I cried until the pain that I was holding onto so 49 finally fled my heart.
After that night I 50 something. Big boys do cry. 51 , it is the biggest hearts that cry the most. I realized too that it is our 52 that can release us from our anger and our grief while 53 us to our love and our God. Tears help us to embrace this often bittersweet life. They help us to keep growing 54 to each other in love and joy instead of 55 ourselves up in dull, aching, and lonely hearts.
A.hurrying B.growing C.rising D.getting
A.tough B.cold C.independent D.active
A.leaders B.neighbors C.heroes D.fathers
A.strict B.strong C.stubborn D.eager
A.still B.always C.hardly D.never
A.otherwise B.therefore C.however D.instead
A.left B.died C.returned D.disappeared
A.keep B.hold C.fix D.move
A.hopping B.learning C.managing D.struggling
A.arms B.feet C.eyes D.hairs
A.hurt B.sank C.froze D.stopped
A.Actually B.Finally C.Naturally D.Immediately
A.faded B.slept C.rested D.cried
A.secretly B.carefully C.strongly D.firmly
A.realized B.picked C.gained D.lost
A.At least B.In fact C.In all D.As usual
A.love B.sweat C.tears D.relation
A.helping B.changing C.removing D.reconnecting
A.closer B.higher C.richer D.shorter
A.catching B.shutting C.picking D.wrapping