I was born and raised in Hong Kong.For the past six years, I've been living in the United States.I work as a salesgirl in a large department store.Right now I'm going through a difficult period of my life which is hard for me to talk about.
A few months ago, I went to Hong Kong for a visit.It was the first time I'd gone back there since coming to the United States.I was eager to see my parents, my brothers, my sisters and my friends.
I really got a shock when I arrived.Hong Kong was not the same city as I left six years ago.Things had changed so much that I didn't recognize parts of it.My primary school was gone.The houses on the street where I used to live had been torn down and replaced by office buildings.
The shock from the physical changes in the city, however, was nothing compares to the confusion and hurt I soon began to feel in my parents' home.My family greeted warmly when I arrived.While my mother was busy preparing a special dinner in my honor, the rest of the family eagerly asked me questions about my life in the United States.I felt happy that day and for a couple of days after, but then I began to feel that something was wrong.I noticed that my family, especially my mother, would sometimes glance at me in a strange way when I was speaking.They gradually became less warm and friendly towards me, I became uncomfortable and confused as to why they were behaving that day.
I decided to talk to my mother.She asked me, "Have you forgotten your Chinese way?" I asked her what she meant.She asked, "You've forgotten the place of women in a Chinese home.You talk when you should remain silent.You speak on matters that of concern only to men.You speak openly of your inner feelings and desires.That's not the way of a Chinese woman.We keep our thoughts and feelings to ourselves.
I was born and raised in Hong Kong.Here raise means______.
A.bring up | B.stay | C.become higher | D.live |
What shocked the author most during her visit in Hong Kong?
A.The physical changes in Hong Kong. |
B.Her primary school didn't exist any longer. |
C.She couldn't recognize parts of Hong Kong. |
D.The confusion and hurt she experienced in her parents' home. |
Why did the author's family become less warm and friendly towards her?
A.She had forgotten her role as a woman. |
B.She didn't follow the Chinese custom about how a woman should behave at home. |
C.She spoke of her inner feelings and desires directly. |
D.She talked about matters that were not concerned with women. |
The best title for this passage is _______.
A.My Trip in Hong Kong | B.The Changes in Hong Kong |
C.Caught Between Two Cultures | D.The Chinese Way |